In a relationship or marriage, the term “do it together” i.e. sharing task together unify love in home. Please your wife is not your slave, object or inferior being.
I read a thread about a guy who feels its absurd to share house chores with future wife. My one cent, you future wife ain’t your slave, she’s got equal right like you do. And for guys who claim I can’t help my wife do this or that, because you feel it make you less of a man,
You have to re-configure your orientation or culture. Pls get rid of that mentality of my sole task is to provide financially. Being a responsible man is beyond such thinking.